Thursday, August 17, 2006
Quitting on The One Yard Line
© copyright 2006 Hueina Su, Beyond Horizon Coaching

"Most people give up just when they're about to acheive success. They quit on the one yard line. They give up at the last minute of the game one foot from a winning touchdown." -- H. Ross Perot

When I was in nursing school (in Taiwan), I used to sing in the College of Medicine Chorus. One Spring Break we went on a trip to The Tai Chi Gorge, where we had to hike on slippery wet boulders down to the deep valley by the river, or climb up the rocky hills on roped ladders -- with no harness, mind you. (If my over-protective parents knew this, they would've freaked out!) Every night we were exhausted by the bonfire. And then some guys who also belonged to the Mountaineer Club decided to tell us the horror stories of how another college's Mountaineer Club encountered a major typhoon (hurricaine) while trying to climb one of the toughest mountains in Taiwan, and how most of them died of exposure -- one guy was found only a couple hundred feet from the cabin. The storm must've been too severe for him to see how close he was from safety. It's the kind of story that gives you goose bumps, especially when you are deep in the mountains yourself.

I kept thinking, even now, "If only that guy kept on walking (or crawling) for a little longer, he would've found the cabin and survived." And I can't help but think: "What if that was me? Would I have survived?"

How do you prevent yourself from "quitting on the one yard line"? I think there are some elements you need:

  • Be very clear about your vision and goal
  • Remind yourself WHY you want to achieve this goal
  • Have a step-by-step action plan
  • Up your mental toughness
  • Record & celebrate your progress
  • Get support from others: friends, family, your life coach
  • Change your attitude toward frustration, rejection and failures
  • Never give up

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2 Comments:


  • At 9/06/2006 9:20 PM, Anonymous Anonymous

    You would not believe this. The site for my husband's business is now number 9 in Google for the keyword phrase he's wanted for 5 years. Unfortunately, the business is in a shambles because 5 months ago he stopped tending to it.

     
  • At 9/06/2006 10:01 PM, Blogger Hueina Su

    Awww, sounds like your husband has quit his business practically on "the one yard line"!!! It must be very disappointing for both of you. I'm curious: since his website is now such a top-ranking site (Bravo!), how does he feel about reviving his business? What's his goal? Does he have an action plan in place? How about you? What would you like to see happen? Please feel free to contact me by phone or by email.