Friday, November 30, 2007
December FREE Teleclass Joyful & Stress-less Holidays
I hope you & yours had a wonderful Thanksgiving. If you had the Turkey Day Blue instead of a joyful, relaxing Thanksgiving, you might want to pay attention here.

Holiday season is officially kicking into high gears -- holiday shopping, decorating, cooking, cleaning, entertaining, family gathering, not to mention holiday cards. The holiday to-do list seems to get longer & longer....

If the holiday season spells S-T-R-E-S-S instead of J-O-Y for you, please join me next Friday, December 7th, for a special Teleclass called Joyful & Stress-less Holidays. I intend to make this a forum discussion, so bring your challenges and best tips to share with your fellow nurturers!

We will discuss:
  • Set your intention for a joyful, stress-less holiday season
  • Design meaningful holiday traditions that won't stress you out
  • Develop an action plan to create the holidays you would enjoy
  • Tips & tricks to de-stress through the holidays and beyond
  • Your challenges and best tips

This Teleclass is F*REE, but you must register in order to receive the Bridgeline (conference call) number and Access Code. To register for this Teleclass, Click Here

Enjoy your weekend, and I hope to "see" you in class next Friday!

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posted by Hueina Su at 9:25 PM | Permalink | 0 comments
Tuesday, November 27, 2007
Creating Your Own Community
I've always stressed the importance of building a strong support system for personal well-being and success. Coaching and mastermind group are two important ways to get such support and accountability, so you can stay on track and move toward your goals.

Isabella Mori at Change Therapy posted a great resource list for building your own community. I'm honored that she also listed one of my articles "Build Your Success Team". Here is Isabella's list:



One of the resources she listed is Evan Carmichael's Mastermind Group Resources Blog. I'm also a regular guest blogger for this blog, writing about mastermind group success (you can read my posts here). It's a great resource for anyone who is interested in joining/starting and succeeding in a mastermind group. I highly recommend that you check out this blog.

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Monday, November 26, 2007
Signs of High Self-Esteem
Copyright 2007 Hueina Su, Beyond Horizon Coaching

At our mother-daughter mastermind group (which we named "Mom and Me II"), we talked about body image and self-esteem for teenage girls. So many young girls (and grown women too) have serious issues with their body image and self image, resulting in low self-esteem, limiting beliefs, self-sabotaging behaviors, etc. In my line of work as a professional life coach, I've seen it time and again that low self-esteem is the root cause of many challenges that my clients are struggling with both in life and at work. For example, a person with low self-esteem might think "I'm not worthy of love" and as a result might not have the courage to pursue the love they desire, or leave an abusive relationship. Or, they might not pursue their dream job or ask for a pay raise, because they don't believe they deserve it. When they are working toward a goal, they might give up too early, because they either don't believe they have what it takes or deserve to be successful. They might sacrifice their own well-being and priorities to please others, because they need others' approval. These are all very common issues I see every day.

As you can see, these self-defeating behaviors can cause a lot of heartaches and hold one back from reaching his/her full potential and goals. That's why we felt that it's critical to address this issue in our mother-daughter mastermind group, so we can hopefully help our preteen daughters foster healthy self-esteem and future success.

At our last meeting, we asked the girls and moms to share what they think as signs of high self-esteem. Below are some of the characteristics that were mentioned. This is of course not an inclusive list. This is what we came up with on the spot that evening, plus a few I added on myself.
  • good body posture -- stand up tall and straight
  • good eye contact when talking with others
  • smile at people
  • confident in their abilities and what they do
  • speak their mind
  • speak in a powerful voice/language
  • good sense of humor
  • like themselves just the way they are
  • not taking themselves too seriously e.g. make jokes about themselves
  • not obsessed with how they look
  • not afraid to ask for help when they need it
  • say no when they need to
  • assertive -- won't let others bully them
  • authentic self-expression -- show their true self to others
  • not afraid to ask for what they want
  • value themselves -- know what they are worth and deserve
  • happy for others' success, instead of feeling jealous or bad about themselves
  • love and respect themselves
  • honor their own needs -- make their well-being and self-care a priority
  • can handle criticism and frustration well
  • proud of who they are and their accomplishments
  • appreciate their own gifts & talents
  • have independent thinking, not easily influenced by others
  • stand by their own values and principles
  • trust their own intuition, judgment and decisions
  • accept responsibility and admit their own mistakes, instead of blaming others
  • confident in taking on new challenges/tasks, instead of avoiding them

Action Challenge:

What can you add to this list?

Which characteristics can you identify with?

And which ones will you work on cultivating in yourself?

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posted by Hueina Su at 7:59 PM | Permalink | 2 comments
Sunday, November 25, 2007
Refresh and Recharge with Mini Energy Breaks
I've written this article a while ago, as part of my Intensive Self-Care Kit that I offer for all new subscribers to my monthly e-zine. Gamy Rachel reminded me that the holiday season is a perfect time to share these mini energy breaks ideas with my readers. I hope you find these tips valuable, and take proactive steps to de-stress during the holidays.

If you like these ideas, download your FREE Intensive Self-Care Kit now, so you will have more tips & tools to take better care of yourself throughout the year.

Also, if holiday stress is your concern, sign up for my upcoming FREE Teleclass "Joyful & Stress-less Holidays" on December 7th.


Mini Energy Breaks Idea List
Copyright 2006 Hueina Su, Beyond Horizon Coaching

In a modern society where we are moving at the speed of light, and everyone is so over-booked and overwhelmed, it’s very easy to feel stressed and drained. There are so many “energy drains” (both physical and emotional drains) in our life. It is very important to build in mini energy breaks throughout the day and the week, so you can reduce stress and replenish your energy.

Below is an idea list of mini energy breaks you can apply to your daily life. You can come up with your own ideas. Keep the list nearby, so you can schedule them into your planner, or refer to it when you have unexpected spare time. With consistent practice, you can learn to defuse and prevent stress and burnout in the long run.


Less than 2 Minutes Breaks
  • Deep breathing: focus your full attention on breathing is perhaps the fastest way to de-stress and center yourself. Take a deep breath in slowly, hold 3 counts, and breathe out slowly
  • Inhale or apply pure essential oils on pulse points: Peppermint, Clarity will energize you and give you mental focus; Lavender and Peace & Calming will calm you down
  • One-frame Mental Picture (visualization): use one mental picture that gives you instant peace and joy, e.g. your child’s smiling face, pet, favorite vacation spot
  • Jumping Jacks, jump rope, or jog in place – gets your blood pumping
  • Wash your face or run cold water on the back of your hands – will energize and wake you up
  • Stand up and stretch
  • Read the comics or a few jokes or funny videos your friends email to you
  • Get a drink of water – proper hydration is important in keeping your energy
  • Send a quick email to say hi to friends or family
  • Rub your palms together until your hands are warm, then cover your eyes with your palm for a minute


2 to 5 Minutes Breaks
  • Read your favorite column in the paper or an article in a magazine
  • Listen to a favorite song and sing along (or get up and dance along!)
  • Close your eyes and visualize yourself skiing down the slope (or doing one of your favorite activities)
  • Check the movie schedule in the paper and plan an outing with your friends
  • Call a friend/mate to chat and/or plan a lunch date
  • Browse through a catalog or art book
  • Keep a book of affirmations or positive quotes near your desk so you can read a few pages when you need a spiritual pick-me-up
  • Look at travel brochure or travel magazines, and plan your next vacation
  • Brew a good cup of tea or coffee & enjoy it
  • Have a quick, healthy snack
  • Walk around the block or office
  • Play with a toy you keep at the office, e.g. yo-yo, paddle ball, dart board
  • Work on a crossword or other types of puzzle
  • Share a joke with someone
  • Give yourself a head massage or foot massage


5 to 30 Minutes Breaks
  • Listen to some inspiring or career development seminar on CD or computer
  • Plan some extra walking into your day – park a little farther from your building, or talk a walk with a friend or your dog
  • Learn a foreign language from CD
  • Curl up on the sofa with a good book and/or a cup of tea
  • Play with your kids or your pets
  • Stop by a book store and browse
  • Stop by your favorite café on your way to work or your way home
  • Shop for a present for your friend/family from a mail order catalog or online
  • Take a brown bag lunch and go to a nearby park
  • Carpool with someone you enjoy, and try to focus your conversation on positive, energy-building topics
  • If you drive by yourself, listen to your favorite CDs (soothing music, songs to sing along, or comedy) or audio books – things that lift your spirit
  • Have a collection of activities and hobbies that you can easily pick up and put down, such as knitting, weaving, puzzles, sudoku, single-hand card games
  • Have a collection of cards & post cards at your desk, so you can write a quick note to your friends or family – reaching out & feeling connected to someone you care, gives you energy & lift your spirit
  • Plan a surprise for someone you love or appreciate
  • Plan something special to look forward to this evening, or this weekend
  • Give yourself a manicure or pedicure
  • Take a different route home from work, stop by a park or sit by a pond, or simply drive through the countryside & enjoy the fresh air


30 minutes to 2 hours (great for week nights or any free time you have during the day)
  • Take an exercise or yoga class
  • Take a walk, roller skate or bike in your neighborhood or in the park (enroll a friend or family members to go with you)
  • Go swimming and enjoy the hot tub afterwards
  • Check out a new store or bakery nearby
  • Go to a lecture on a topic that you enjoy
  • Take an arts & crafts class or workshop – learning something new energizes you
  • Go to a movie
  • Have a lunch date with your friends or your mate
  • Have a tea party with your friends or your kids
  • Take a bubble bath or foot bath
  • Light a scented candle and meditate
  • Enjoy your favorite dessert and savor every bite of it
  • Get a facial, manicure or massage – bodywork is great for relieving tension
  • Enjoy playing music or singing – don’t worry if you can’t play/sing well, it would actually be more fun to goof around with your friends/family, or by yourself!
  • Play board games or card games
  • Join the family in a game of backyard badminton, football, baseball, ping pong or hide-and-seek before dinner
  • Attend to your garden
  • Keep a journal
  • Write a card or letter to friends or family
  • Take a nap (why not?)
  • Track down old friends that you’ve lost touch with, and call or write to them
  • Review old family pictures or albums, and tell family jokes or stories to each other
  • Enjoy old musical albums or CDs and dance in your own living room
  • Watch an old favorite movie or sitcom
  • Plan your next vacation – collect maps, books, articles of your favorite destinations, talk with your friends/family about the activities you would like to do while you are there, and how your will feel
  • If you had a bad day, role play with your friends or family about the situation and come up with the most outrageous, silly comeback you would’ve liked to say to that person – laughter is a great stress-reliever


Jot down your own ideas here:
(or post a comment here to share your idea with everyone)

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posted by Hueina Su at 2:29 PM | Permalink | 2 comments
Thursday, November 22, 2007
Turkey Day Blue

I talked to my coach yesterday, and she asked me what my plans were for Thanksgiving. I said, "Well, my parents and in-laws are overseas, and my sister and cousins all seem to be too busy this year to get together. So, we (the four of us) are basically on our own this year."

Her response was, "Oh, I am SO envious of you! I'm going to my mom's for Thanksgiving tomorrow, and I'm SO not looking forward to it!"

Sounds like my coach has a serious case of Turkey Day Blue.

I guess we are lucky. My husband and I are so laid back this year. In fact, he suggested going to an all-you-can-eat Japanese seafood buffet for Thanksgiving dinner. We figured, none of us are huge fans of turkey. Honestly, I'm not interested in laboring for hours to cook something I'm not so crazy about, and the kids probably wouldn't miss it. Well, we were wrong. My son protested, when I mentioned that there won't be a turkey dinner this Thanksgiving. So, this was 9:30pm Monday night, 2 days before Thanksgiving, and DH and I were going online & calling up nearby grocery stores, trying to order a Thanksgiving dinner for four.

Of course, most of the places had either sold out their Thanksgiving dinners, or they required a big order like a party of 10 or more.

It's kind of funny, when you think about it. All I wanted was a very small turkey (so we won't be stuck, or I should say, stuffed, with turkey leftovers for weeks!) but my son wanted the mashed potatoes, gravy, cranberry sauce, pumpkin pie, and the whole 9 yards. Well, he is always the one in our family with the most "American stomach".

Did we find our turkey dinner? Yes, we finally found it on Tuesday, so yes, we will be having a traditional turkey dinner tonight, instead of Japanese sushi & seafood.

I'm very grateful for whatever dinner we have, and most of all, for my very beautiful, happy & healthy family who will be sitting at the dinner table together.

As for my poor coach (and anyone reading this) who's got the Turkey Day Blue, I send my sympathy and blessings.

I asked my coach this question, and if you also have the Turkey Day Blue, this would be a good question for you to ponder.

This is what I said to her: "Here is a coaching question for you: If your goal is to have more peace & joy and less stress, what would you commit to do differently this holiday season?"

P.S. If you can't answer that question, maybe you can benefit from my upcoming Teleclass "Joyful and Stress-less Holidays". Sign up here.

I wish you and your family
a very happy
(and hopefully relaxing)
Thanksgiving holiday!


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posted by Hueina Su at 1:09 PM | Permalink | 2 comments
Happy Thanksgiving and November E-zine

Happy Thanksgiving to you
& your family!

'Tis the season to give thanks. I'd like to take this opportunity to express my gratitude for all of you -- my clients, colleagues, and subscribers. Some of you have known me for years, some of you have been reading my e-zine since I started it almost 2 years ago, and some of you have just signed up. I want you to know I truly appreciate your support, and it's my privilege to serve you. Please do not hesitate to email or call me, if I can support you in any way.

My November E-zine is ready. You can read it on my website. If you enjoy this E-zine, sign up as a subscriber and receive a FREE Intensive Self-Care Kit, with tips & tools to help you nurture yourself and create more balance in your life.

Holiday season is here, and for many people that spells S-T-R-E-S-S. If you are one such person, don't forget to sign up for my next Teleclass Joyful & Stress-less Holidays on Friday December 7th, 2007.

Enjoy a relaxing holiday weekend!

Blessings,
Hueina

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posted by Hueina Su at 4:13 AM | Permalink | 0 comments
Tuesday, November 20, 2007
THE Shortcut to Joy
© copyright 2007 Hueina Su, Beyond Horizon Coaching

The other day, I was presenting a workshop called "C.P.R. for a Balanced Life". One of the principles I shared was "Pain is inevitable; suffering is optional." This principle always seems to strike a chord in the audience, and they often ask "How can you not suffer when bad things happen?"


Happiness is a Choice

Do you believe that life is supposed to be joyful and happiness is a choice?

Some people believe that life is all about pain and suffering. Some even act like the more they suffer, and/or self-sacrifice (think martyr), they will be able to collect some kind of reward at the end of life. Since our thoughts & beliefs create our reality, if you buy into that kind of beliefs, I think the only reward you will get is a self-fulfilling prophecy of a life full of suffering.

Sure, it's much easier to be happy when your life is all wine and roses. However, as you must have experienced, most of the times, things don't necessarily go our way. Sometimes, bad things do happen to good people, including you and me. That's when your free will and choice come into play.

Do you choose to see the glass as half-full or half-empty?

Do you choose to play victim and drown in self-pity, or do you choose to take 100% responsibility and take charge to find solutions?

Can you choose to see the positive side in everything, and be at peace no matter what?

Sometimes we have no control over the circumstances or events that happen in our life. If we were to change how we feel, the only thing we could change is how we interpret and respond to the events. There is always more than one way of looking at things. It really depends on from which angle you look at it.

I believe that everything happens for a reason. We may or may not see it, or appreciate it, but whatever happens in our lives is meant to help us grow into who we are meant to be, or help us move forward on our journey. When you choose to take on this belief, it would be easier to accept and be at peace with whatever you perceive as negative circumstances that you cannot change.


Uncommon Blessings

Sometimes when you are going through a particularly challenging time of your life, it might not be so easy to find the blessings. Can you recall something from your past that you thought was THE worst thing that could happen to you, and yet years later you realized that was actually a blessing in disguise? We all have this type of experience. What does it tell you? If you believe in a Higher Power and a Master Plan, it would be a little easier for you to trust that everything will work out eventually for your best interest. So, instead of suffering through it, why not choose to believe that it's a blessing in disguise, and choose to find the positive and/or the lesson presented to you.

Years ago I came to US for graduate school. I was very excited about the opportunity to live in a new country and pursue a graduate degree. However, within the first month, I had to have an emergency surgery, and ended up having to withdraw from all classes for the entire semester. I was devastated. The doctor came to congratulate me when he was about to discharge me and noticed that I seemed depressed. He couldn't understand why, since the surgery was very successful and it probably saved my life. I told him that I was very disappointed that I had to withdraw from all classes and waste the whole semester. It seemed like such a huge disaster back then. However, years later when I look back, all I feel is gratitude. I'm so grateful for those friends who took me to the ER in the middle of the night, and everyone who took care of me after the surgery. I'm grateful for the skillful doctor who cured a painful condition that had plagued me for years. I'm also grateful for those 3 months I got to spend in recovery. It took me a long time to realize that, that was the only 3 months in my adult life that I did not have a job, or school, or family. Hey, I didn't even have a boyfriend. I didn't have to take care of anything, or anyone. The only task I had in those 3 months was to focus on healing myself, and doing whatever I enjoyed doing. Coming out of a demanding nursing job and a challenging relationship, that was just the break I needed, before jumping into a new chapter in my life. It was, indeed, a blessing in disguise.


THE Shortcut to Joy

If all else fails, and you can't get out of a foul mood, I highly recommend that you take THE shortcut to joy -- count your blessings. I'm sure it's not difficult to find plenty of people and things that you are grateful for in your life. Bring them into your mind's eyes, and say thank-you silently to each one of them. Better yet, call or write to some of the people you are grateful for, and let them know how much you appreciate them. Trust me, you will feel better almost instantly.

So, here's my "Rx for Joy" for you: Count your blessings. Stat. Repeat as necessary.

"Reflect upon your blessings, of which every man has plenty, not on your past misfortunes, of which all men have some."
-- Charles Dickens

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posted by Hueina Su at 12:13 AM | Permalink | 2 comments
Sunday, November 18, 2007
"The Balancing Act": my radio interview
I was interviewed on the radio show "Protect Your American Dream" on November 13, 2007. The topic was "The Balancing Act". This radio show is mostly about financial issues, however, Jaynee Sasso, the host, invited me because she has seen the negative impact of poor time management in work-life balance, as well as in financial success.

As a professional life & business coach, I help my clients prioritize and re-design their lives, to create more work-life balance, reduce stress, improve self-care, achieve personal & career goals, and live the life they truly desire. These days, work-life balance seems to have become an impossible dream for most people. We all wear multiple hats, which comes with multitudes of responsibilities and obligations. Combining that with the need to please (or the inability to say NO) and poor time management skills, and you easily get side-tracked from your priorities and long-term goals, not to mention the possibility of burnout, depression, or even dis-ease.

So, what can you do to effectively manage your time so that you can achieve your goals, take care of your priorities, nurture yourself and avoid burnout? How do you prioritize your tasks? How do you avoid "busy-ness" and improve productivity? How do you say NO so that you can free up time for yourself and what's important for you? In this radio interview I offered many practical tips and strategies that you can apply to your life.

Click here to listen to the interview recording. Visit my website for more information about my coaching programs and FREE Teleclass series. While you are there, don't forget to sign up to download your FREE Intensive Self-Care Kit.

P.S. If the upcoming holiday season spells S-T-R-E-S-S for you, maybe you can benefit from my upcoming Teleclass "Joyful and Stress-less Holidays". Sign up here.

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posted by Hueina Su at 10:33 PM | Permalink | 2 comments
Friday, November 16, 2007
Celebrate National Family Caregivers Month
November is the National Family Caregivers Month, as proclaimed by the president of United States of America. If you are a family caregiver, don't forget to take good care of yourself. If you are a care recipient, please take this opportunity to say thanks to your caregiver(s).

The National Family Caregivers Month is organized each year by National Family Caregivers Association (NFCA) and is designated as a time to thank, support, educate and celebrate family caregivers. "This year we are encouraging people to speak up during National Family Caregivers Month." said Suzanne Mintz, NFCA president and co-founder. "One of the most important attributes on being an advocate for your loved one is the willingness and the ability to speak up and keep your eye on the ultimate goal, protecting not only the health and safety of your loved ones but for yourself as well." Visit their website for Caregiving Resources (tips, websites and organizations for caregivers).

As a member of the Caregivers Coalition, an initiative of United Way of Morris County, I was invited to attend The Caregivers Awareness Day Luncheon on November 14. Former NJ governer Richard Codey, also a caregiver himself, was the guest speaker. When the program committee asked each caregiver to stand for recognition, nearly everyone in the room stood up. We all agreed that almost everyone, if not now, will be a caregiver for someone of significance in their life, work or community. Visit Caregivers Coalition website for a list of caregivers resources, including their brand new guidebook "Pathways for Caregivers" (you can call to request a free copy).

Take good care of yourself... you are irreplaceable!

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posted by Hueina Su at 1:29 AM | Permalink | 0 comments
Thursday, November 15, 2007
The 212 Degrees Attitude
© copyright 2007 Hueina Su, Beyond Horizon Coaching

Have you ever boiled water for tea or soup? Do you put the tea kettle or pot on the stove and walk away, or do you stand by the stove to wait for the water to boil? If you have ever stood there and wait (that's usually when you need the water in a hurry), you probably felt like it was taking forever for the water to boil.

You watch for the slightest sign that the water is getting close to boiling. But, the more anxious you are, the slower the process seems to be. Nothing seems to change until the water reaches 212 degrees Fahrenheit, which is water's boiling point.

Nothing seems to happen until the temperature turns from 211 to 212 degrees.

That one extra degree makes all the difference.

Imagine if you become impatient and give up before the water reaches its boiling point, what would happen to your water? If you have turned off the stove, thinking that you have wasted your time and effort, and that the water will never boil, what would've happened then?

Working toward a goal in life is much like boiling water on the stove. Far too often, we either did not give our 100%, or we give up way too early, for various reasons. Maybe your self-doubt got the better of you, maybe you became impatient, maybe you had fears of failure or success, or maybe you lost faith in your Higher Power, your ability, vision, or dreams. It's like a football team quitting on the one yard line, instead of going all the way for that winning touchdown. If you did not make enough efforts to make it happen, or if you give up too early, you would've really wasted all your time and effort without return.

Training in martial arts also taught me the importance of mental toughness, perseverance and following through. Lack of self-confidence, half-hearted efforts and fear of pain sometimes would literally bring you more pain. When you are breaking boards, or sparring, or competing in tournaments, there is no room for self-doubt or fear. No matter how much you practice or how good you are, if you don't believe you can win, you've already lost before you even begin. Anyone who knows how to break boards would tell you that you don't aim at the boards you want to break. You must aim at a few inches behind the boards, and make sure your strike goes all the way through the boards. Second-guessing yourself, stopping short before reaching the boards, or stopping your strike at the surface of the boards would not only result in failure to break them, it often causes more pain or even injury to your hand or foot. Believe me, I've learned my lessons the hard way, and now I know better.

"Most people give up just when they're about to achieve success. They quit on the one yard line. They give up at the last minute of the game one foot from a winning touchdown." -- H. Ross Perot


So, what would you rather do? Go that extra mile and give it your all? Or, give a half-hearted performance and wonder what could've been?

Sometimes we need to take a leap of faith and believe that our dreams will come true. To get what we've never had in life, we must do what we've never done before. That extra one degree of effort could make a world of difference for you. Watch this movie 212 Degrees, and think about it.

It's your life, your choice.



* Related post: Quitting on the One Yard Line

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posted by Hueina Su at 11:12 PM | Permalink | 14 comments
Wednesday, November 14, 2007
How is Your Financial Health?
Here is a quick question for you:

How is your financial health these days?

Are you satisfied with your current financial status? Are you saving up enough for retirement, college tuition, long-term care, emergency, etc? Are you on track to achieve your financial goals for yourself and your family?

Or...

Are you struggling to even pay the bills? Do you have difficulty to even balance your checkbook? Are you buried deep in debts? Do you dread opening your mailbox everyday because you are afraid of seeing.... more bills!

Bills you can't pay!!!

If you stay on the same path you are on right now, in 5, 10 or 20 years, where will it lead you to?

Will it lead you to financial freedom or peril???

This year is almost over (I know, it went by WAY too fast). It's time to re-evaluate every area of your life, and set new goals for next year. If you are NOT satisfied with where you are right now in your financial situation, I urge you to come to
our next Teleclass, which is scheduled for THIS Friday November 16th.


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Teleclass Title:
Achieving a Lifetime of Financial Success

Date:
Friday, November 16th, 2007

Time:
12:00 - 1:00 pm Eastern Time

Guest Speaker:
Jaynee Sasso, Founder & President of Faithful Assistants Inc. www.FaithfulAssistants.com

Cost: F*REE, but you must register in order to receive the
Bridgeline & Access Code, and the Teleclass recording

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In this Teleclass you will learn how to...
* Break the cycle of living paycheck to paycheck
* Get out and stay out of debt
* Develop a mindset of success

..... and much more.


To register for this Teleclass:

==> www.beyondhorizoncoaching.com/financialsuccess.html


Hope to "see" you in class!


To your prosperity and success,
Hueina

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posted by Hueina Su at 10:07 PM | Permalink | 0 comments
Young Living Essential Oils Event in New Jersey
Did you catch our popular Teleclass about Essential Oils?

If you live in New Jersey and would like to learn more about Young Living Therapeutic-Grade Essential Oils, this is a great opportunity. Marc Schreuder, Director Product Formulation, and Jon McGarry, Eastern Regional Business Director, will introduce to you to a host of new products and the research supporting them. You will get new product samples, discounts, and hundreds of dollars of door prizes.
  • Date: November 16, 2007

  • Time: 6:00 - 9:00 p.m

  • Place: Marriott Saddle Brook (Garden State Pkwy exit at I-80), Saddle Brook, New Jersey
  • Call (201) 843-9500 (for directions only)

  • Cost: FREE!

If you would like to attend this event, please email me. Thanks.

Blessings,
Hueina

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posted by Hueina Su at 12:38 AM | Permalink | 0 comments
Tuesday, November 13, 2007
Radio Interview Tonight!
I'm excited to tell you that I will be interviewed on the radio show "Protect The American Dream" on TalkShoe Radio tonight!

- Date: Tuesday, November 13th
- Time: 9:00pm - 10:00pm Eastern Time
- Topic: The Balancing Act


==> How to participate


Call in:
Dial: (724) 444-7444
Enter: 1790 # (Talkcast ID)
Enter: 1 # or your PIN

Join from your computer:

Become a TalkShoe member

If you miss the show, you can listen to the recording:
Visit Show Archives

I hope you can listen to the show tonight!

Blessings,
Hueina

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posted by Hueina Su at 12:30 AM | Permalink | 0 comments
Monday, November 12, 2007
November Teleclass: Achieving a Lifetime of Financial Success
My November Teleclass is coming up. Don't forget to sign up!

Topic: Achieving a Lifetime of Financial Success


- Date: Friday, November 16th
- Time: 12:00 - 1:00 pm Eastern Time
- Guest Speaker: Jaynee Sasso, Founder & President
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Saturday, November 10, 2007
Carnival of Healing #111: Pathway to Conscious Wellness
After a long break from hosting, I'm honored to host this week's Carnival of Healing #111: Pathway to Conscious Wellness.

In order to create full-spectrum healing, I believe we need to make changes both inside and out. Changing the diet, exercise and life style is important, but eliminating stress and self-defeating beliefs is also critical in promoting healing. It takes self-awareness and conscious choice to make these changes.

In reviewing the posts submitted this week, I found the common theme of conscious wellness. Some posts address the process of transforming limiting beliefs. I've always said that self-awareness is the first step to change. When you can acknowledge and accept what is, you can then make a conscious choice to change it.

In the spirit of Thanksgiving, there are a couple posts that remind us to focus on being grateful for what we have in our lives, including the ability to learn & reinvent ourselves.

There are a few posts offering home remedies and I decided to file them under self-empowering options. I call them self-empowering, because when you can take an active role in the decision-making and treatment of your own dis-ease, or better yet, when you have the tools and the power to make yourself better, it's very liberating and empowering. I'm speaking from my personal experience. Last year I was in a lot of pain due to herniated discs in my neck and lower back. I went to physical therapy, neck traction, trigger point injections, chiropractic care for months, and the pain would always come back within days, or even hours after treatments. I was frustrated and depressed. When the MD offered me painkillers, I walked away, knowing long-term use of these medications will damage my kidney (I only have one) and liver. I went to acupuncture instead, and for the first time in months, I felt hope. Later, I was introduced to therapeutic-grade essential oils, and the oils helped me relieve the pain as well as stress & emotional blocks. Having the tools at my disposal made me feel empowered. I'm overjoyed to be able to live pain-free and resume my martial arts training. Anyway, that's a long explanation of why I decided to put home remedies in the self-empowering options category.

Then, there are some entries in the EnJoy category because they made me smile. I firmly believe the power of laughter in promoting health & healing. That's why these posts are an important part of this carnival.

Here are the 29 entries of this week's edition. Enjoy!


Conscious Change

Alex at The Next 45 Years wrote a thought-provoking post 10 Things You Wish You Have Never Learned. Some of my favorites: "I wish I had never learned that I’m not worthy to have what I want", "I wish I had never learned that speaking up for my needs was a waste of time", and "I wish I had never learned that I wasn’t enough."

Lola wrote about how to lose the guilt (part I) posted at Real World Spiritual and Personal Development. Great analysis of why we have guilt. Looking forward to reading more in part 2 of this series.

A second post from Lola teaches us How to Make Personal Spiritual Development Impact Your Career and Business, suggesting "making work an extension of you".

Isabella Mori at Change Therapy brought up some great points to ponder in her post Time to Eat or Time to Feel. It's about being mindful about how you choose to use your time - to eat, to feel, or do anything else.

Daylle Deanna Schwartz at Lessons from a Recovering DoorMat teaches us how to Turn a Negative to Positive with Just a Thought. She wrote, "When you believe that a bad outcome is inevitable, it is. When you refuse to accept it no matter what circumstances suggest, you open yourself to more positive results."

Carole G. McKay at McKay Today presents A Friend in Deed. She wrote, "The Native Americans of Southern Arizona are now embarking upon remembering what was once common knowledge and common practice to their culture. Earth is our ally and benefactor. If we treat her with the respect She deserves, She will in turn sustain us in a healthy and life-supporting manner."

Matthew Spears at Loving Awareness reminds us of That Childlike State, and Love. He lists qualities such as vulnerability, harmony, a sense of perpetual wonder, exploration beyond "right" and "wrong", learning through play, and trust. Don't forget to let your inner child come out and play!

Ian Welsh at The Agonist argues that the government should take a more socially responsible approach in regulating food prices, so that we can all have more affordable, healthy foods. It's in a post titled Why Eating Healthy Foods Costs More Than Eating Junk.

James DeLelys at New Books share a few tips of distinguish between Truth or Lie.

Gal Josefsberg at 60 IN 3 urges us to Break Away from Stress, saying "I think even exercise fans like myself need to know that sometimes, taking a break and appreciating the world around us is the healthiest thing we can do."

Tupelo Kenyon at Tupelo Kenyon.com presents Persistence and Perseverance for Winners – Losers Just Quit, saying "Giving up is easy. Most people make a habit of giving up. In fact, they make a life of it Persistence through a solution-oriented attitude is for visionaries, dreamers and other winners who refuse to take 'no' for a final answer."

Chris at Martial Development emphasizes that Hagakure: The Way of the Warrior is Forgiveness. He gave a historical introduction of Bushido, and concludes that "Even a warrior—especially a warrior—should master the art of repaying cruelty with kindness. Forgiveness of minor insults, attacks and other transgressions is the single most powerful method of de-escalation."

Lucy Baldwin at Moving Help Central shares 5 Things I Learned from Moving 17 Times. I can totally relate and agree with her great advice, since I've moved probably more than 17 times since I moved from Taiwan to US 18 years ago.

TheNourisher at Nourished Magazine presents Cancer: Disease of Civilisation, saying "After more than three decades, the "War on Cancer," declared by President Nixon in 1971, is far from won. A new cancer is diagnosed every 30 seconds. Every three minutes, two people in the US die from cancer. Considered to take over heart disease as the number one killer, it will take one if 5 lives. What are we doing to cause such an epidemic?" Good question! Read this post to find out.

Romeo Vitelli at Providentia argues that "few lessons seemed to have been learned from the World War I experience" about post-traumatic stress disorder. Read about the history in Shell Shocked, Part 2.

Carole Fogarty at The Healthy Living Lounge asks "Are your energy levels being eaten by the sounds around you?" She reminds us to recognize and tune out negative sounds that drain our energy, and consciously choose to include nourishing sounds in your daily life.

Jeni at Savvy Skin reminds us that Secondhand Smoke Sucks! Obviously, secondhand smoke raises your risk of lung cancer. But, do you know it also damages your skin?


Self-empowering Options

For many women, "that special time of the month" presents a host of uncomfortable or even unbearable symptoms. Aparna at Beauty and Personality Grooming shares with us many Home Remedies for PMS, including yoga poses, breathing exercises, meditation, herbs, acupressure/reflexology, etc.

David at Ambitiously Inquisitive presents various Home Remedies for Acne Scars, using many kitchen staples such as lemon, honey and cucumbers. I know it's for your face, but these sound yummy! :)

Anmol Mehta at Mastery of Meditation, Enlightenment & Kundalini Yoga introduces Healthy Ayurvedic Diet To Burn Fat & Lose Weight, saying "Using the wisdom of Ayurveda, the ancient Eastern science of self healing, to determine diet in order to reduce weight naturally and be healthy."

Michelle Moquin asks the question "What's in Your Cosmetics?" posted in A Day in the Life of... You might be pretty shocked to find out how toxic your cosmetics and skin care could be. She has listed the "Dirty Dozen" ingredients, so be sure to check your cosmetics' labels.

Jimmy Atkinson at Medical Tourism Guide offers 100 Little Tips to Help You Live to 100 in areas such as diet, exercise, mental health, preventive care, lifestyle & safety.

Sol Lederman at Wild About Math! presents EFT Clears Math Phobia. EFT is a powerful energy and belief shifting technique, which often requires "peeling an onion" process to uncover layers of emotions at the root cause. Sol gives a detailed introduction of EFT as well as possible emotional layers of math phobia.

Arun at Arun is Bringing You...Your Daily Remedy presents The Power of Self Confidence with "the many ways in which self-confidence can make your life richer, and some exercises to improve your self confidence."


EnJoy

Brendan McPhillips shares a video clip of Seinfeld with the Green Day song Time of Your Life (Good Riddance). By the way, this song is also one of my personal favorite from recent years. Brendan says, "It can inspire us to not let a day slip by without trying to experience some JOY!" You have to see it for yourself at Brendan McPhillips.com.

Madeleine Begun Kane at Mad Kane's Humor Blog shares some Possibly Good, Albeit Annoying Advice in a limerick.


Gratitude

Daniel Brenton at Words to Heal offers "some reflections on being grateful we have the ability to learn, and that we can learn those things that will make the rest of our lives worthwhile." Enjoy the poem and encouraging words in "I Am Grateful I Can Learn".

Judy Lubin at Heart and Style Woman presents Gratitude: The Key to Greater Health and Happiness. She offers these tips to build your gratitude practice: Here are few ways to build your gratitude practice: Say a prayer of thanks each morning, keep a gratitude journal, light a candle, pause and bring your hands to your heart, reflect on three good things that happened at the end of each day, send a thank you note.

Tina Su at Think Simple. Be Decisive presents "Attitude of Gratitude: 5 Tools for Appreciation". The tools she offers are Gratitude Journal, Gratitude Rock, Gratitude Beads, Wheel of Gratitude, and Gratitude Diet.

This concludes this week's Carnival of Healing. A heartfelt Thank You to everyone who participated in this week's Carnival. You can find last week's carnival at REIKISHARE. Next week the Carnival of Healing will be at Tarot Blog. Don't forget to submit your post.

Until next time, please take good care of yourself. You are irreplaceable.

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